Prevent children from lying

When you hear a lie from your child, when anger comes to you, do not think about being punished immediately, wait a while and think about preventing children from lying, and read on.



Everything you need to know about child lying

Psychologists’ belief that children lie is a problem that needs to be solved. It is our duty as parents to take care of and guide our children.
Why does our child lie?
1- Due to maintaining the distance between your world and your parents:
It is true that sometimes children and most adolescents, because they do not have an intimate and friendly relationship with their parents and are unaware of their reactions, lie to prevent their parents from being aware of the realities of their world.
2. To attract attention:
The biggest tragedies in our children’s lives stem from this lack of attention. This lack of parental attention in the future puts children on the path to trusting strangers and the subsequent bad consequences.

The reason children lie

3- To announce your presence:
Sometimes children feel that no one accepts them as a wise person and show their presence by lying.
4- To not upset others:
If our child once made a mistake and encountered our intolerable reaction, we can no longer expect that child to be honest. You always have to stay in control and think well and then act.

Tips to prevent children from lying

When your child lies to you, think about the consequences of your behavior. For example, if one day your child lied that he had done his homework but you realized he was lying, never say, “How dare you lie to me.” Tell me? ” Do you know why?
Because this sentence destroys the child’s courage and desire to tell you what is right or wrong, you close the door on him and allow him to open another door for himself.
What to do when we hear our child lies?
Remember to never behave immediately. Send him to his room and tell him that you will come to his room to talk to him. In this fate, your nerves and tension will decrease and he will find a safe place to go to his room and will be ready to accept.
Start with a simple statement such as: We know that this word and .. is not true and we want to find out what is true? You put the child on the right path without threatening. Speak in a poignant tone, neither too harsh nor too gentle so that the child will follow your firm decision without fear.
Eliminate the tensions and anxieties in the home environment so that the child can focus positively .
Finally know that:
By telling this lie, your child intended to solve the problem or escape from creating the problem that you have provided the basis for, so establish and maintain a friendly relationship with your child so that he can feel his trust in you with all his being.

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